At what point do you decide that you're wasting your time and just give up on a person? Does he still deserve the benefit of the doubt, or should I just throw in the towel and move on? Am I overanalyzing, or are these legitimate concerns? For once, my friends are coming down on his side, which is promising. This is still moving far too slowly.

All I need right now is some peace and quiet, and some one to love. I'm getting the impression that neither of those is forthcoming. There's a vague promise of each, but I wonder at the potential of fruition.